Get rid of Split Personality: New Year Resolution





  1. New Year Resolution: To get rid from the curse of ‘Split Personality’

    Again a new year is coming. The thing which wonders me the most is RESOLUTION made at the start of the year. I really admire those people who strictly follow their resolutions, though I am extremely poor in these things.

    But this year I have decided one thing to develop into myself, rather say to wipe out away from myself. That is the ‘SPLIT PERSONALITY’!!!
    I was a kind of person who never believed in the researches and comments made on split personality, but yes, now some real life experiences has made me re-think over it.

    I say that most of the people suffer from split personality. Haven’t you observed that we are different when we are happy and calm and at peace and we become a very different individual when we are upset and angry and annoyed! Isn’t this a case of split personality?

    I will say a big YES; though there are chances that the researchers will plan to slay me after reviewing my write up.

    I have observed that even those who like to stay in peace end up in fighting when at times things don’t move as per their expectation. To explain more, let’s take an example.
    Suppose you have a small family and you are happy with it, but you don’t like that your child asking permission for late night parties. What would you do? At the first 3-6 times repetitive requests, you will handle the situation calmly, but what after that? Won’t you slap your child saying the most eminent threat used by parents “how many times have I told you not to ask and go for such parties?”

    It was a very small example but I am sure it would have rightly portrayed the theme (split personality).

    Thus, I wish this New Year to evolve, and be a one personality rather than the split one.

    I have discovered some tips for this as well:

    Always remember who are you
    Always remember what impact will your second personality could have in future
    Don’t make decisions when you are not feeling like ‘original’ you.
    Start behaving exactly opposite when you feel that the ‘second’ person wants to come out, like if the ‘second’ person wants you to shout at someone, go and give a hug to the same person and so on
    The most important, always remember this is your 'NEW YEAR RESOLUTION buddy!! '

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