Take that fear out...

So, finally the wednesday was not so scary for my daughter..So, here are the few tips which helped me, and could help you as well, if you want to take out that fear from you lil one:

  • Try and create the same atmosphere she will face in school
  • My baby was scared of dancing, so previous day, all we did was--DANCE with her
  • Tell her the benefits if she does not cry
  • Most of the time, discuss the topic she is scared of
  • Tell her your own experiences
  • Make stories which she can corelate
  • And finally, promise a gift :)

And believe me, once she is comfortable in that space, it will remain forever.

 

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